The Wild Secrets Charm + Heat is the newest addition to my ever-growing sex toy collection. And it has earned its right to stay. No matter if you’re single or happily coupled, having a healthy relationship to your sexuality is important. I highly recommend making time to let your body feel loved and taken care of. If you aren’t sure what feels good and have yet to develop that connection to your body, now is the perfect time to start exploring with the help of this heated G-Spot vibrator.
The hot goss on the Charm + Heat
The Charm + Heat is a simple and sleek design, and I can see why you might overlook this one. But it has something a little extra that many vibrators don’t include. The end of the toy heats up which I personally like using externally at first to wake up the entirety of the clitoris. Paired it with some water-based lube, and try tracing it along the labia and clitoral glans (the tip). Doing this before inserting the vibrator feels great and encourages blood flow. This way you are allowing the entire clitoris to become erect which will make penetration that much more enjoyable. If you want to make things really spicey massage a pea sized amount of the Wild Secret’s Sensual Arousal Gel around the clitoris with the Charm on low vibration.
The Charm + Heat is made of body-safe and phthalate-free, medical-grade silicone which means it is healthy for the pusswa. It also means oil and silicone-based lubes aren’t suitable as they break down the materials of the sex toy. The Charm + Heat is also waterproof, making it a versatile toy you can enjoy in the bedroom, bathroom and wherever else you may desire to get it on.
It is USB rechargeable with an easy-to-use button to turn the power on and off, as well as to turn the heat on. A red light will turn on when the heating mode is activated. The Charm has 10 different vibration functions including your standard increase in power and pulsating options. If you are anything like me, I usually stick to the first three options.
If you like a lot of stimulation around your G-spot this toy is going to be an absolute favourite. It is curved perfectly to stimulate the g-spot and internal part of the clitoris. With the heating and ridges, The Charm provides additional stimulation to edge you toward the big O.
Get charmingly comfortable
As a single woman in her 30s, I appreciate no one can do it quite like me. It’s taken me a good part of a decade to discover what I enjoy and to integrate that into partnered sex. When I was younger, I downplayed how much I wanted to use a vibrator when having sex with men. These days it is really a non-negotiable for me. If you are wondering how you might use a vibrator with a partner, let me trigger your imagination quickly:
- Mutual masturbation
- Put on a show for your partner. No touching, but they can watch
- Your partner can use the vibrator on you. This is a great solution if they need a break or are dealing with premature ejaculation
- You can get spicy and use for double penetration
As a qualified Psycho-sexologist, I believe in building a solid understanding of what contributes to your sexual identity and sexual scripts. This may look like the roles you gravitate toward when having sex with a lover, or the thoughts running through your mind when you masturbate. Exploring your body and different sex toys solo is one way to expand your sexual identity. You may come to discover your body responds much better to G-spot targeted toys like the Charm + Heat, and telling your sexual partner what you like will enhance your pleasure.
Your new Prince Charming?
The Charm + Heat is a wonderful and easy to use toy. If it is your first time trying out a heated sex toy like me, it offers a gentle heat. Initially I wasn’t sure what to expect but felt reassured when I realised the toy isn’t scalding hot. I would compare the heat to the warmth of another’s hand. This makes the experience more natural and relaxing to the body and mind.
I strongly believe we should all have staples in our sex toy drawer, much like you would for clothing. Instead of a good pair of jeans and a blazer, we need a good G-spot massager and clitoral stimulator. Don’t be like me and wait until your 30s to start prioritising pleasure. Treat yourself to the Charm vibrator which will forever be a sex toy staple.