The Lap Dance
This is absolutely one of the best anal sex positions for beginners as the receiver has full control, allowing them to ease into their first anal experience as deeply or as shallow as they’re comfortable with.
Simply have the giver sit on the edge of the bed, couch or a seat while the receiver stands in front, facing away from their partner. When you’re ready, sit down and embrace the new sensations going as fast, slow, and as deep as you like.
This anal sex position isn’t as intimate as some others, but try caressing each other as you go to feel a stronger connection.
Missionary
Who doesn’t love missionary? It’s a great way to feel ultra-close to your partner, and is totally beginner-friendly. The anal sex missionary position means the giver will have more control in terms of how deep they go – so communication is key!
This one is super easy, have the receiver lay on their back, with the giver on top in the perfect position for penetration. You may need a slightly higher angle for missionary anal sex, so try propping a pillow under the receiver’s hips for some extra help getting the angle just right.
Don’t forget lots of eye contact for an even more intimate moment, and keep checking in with each other as you go.
Cowgirl/Cowboy
As the receiver, if you like being in control or are having your first anal experience learning your limits – then this one’s for you. Easily take control and ride your partner however you like it most. Fast, slow, find your rhythm and get ready for a big anal orgasm.
So, how do you do it? The giver is the one that lays on their back this time, with the receiver on top straddling them with their knees on either side. When ready, the receiver simply lowers themselves onto the giver until comfortable.
If you’re feeling really adventurous, play with reversing the position! Have the receiver face away from the giver for an extra wild ride, but keep in mind reversing the position is a lot more work than your standard cowgirl/cowboy. So maybe save this for when you’re both feeling more confident.